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Scared of Losing Solo Travel Once I Had a Partner; Found Easy Solution
I love my life as a freelance journalist. I specialize in travel and take international trips almost every month, sometimes for weeks at a time.
For years, it was just me, my rucksack, laptop, and camera until I ended up in a new relationship in early 2024.
One of my biggest fears was that having a boyfriend would mean I’d lose my freedom to solo travel or feel restrained in my career. I don’t always enjoy traveling with others, and I never wanted to risk my ability to globetrot independently.
It’s an awkward topic to approach, but we had to tackle it head-on pretty quickly: After three months of dating, I was embarking on a massive trip across South, Central, and North America.
We’d be thrown into a long-distance relationship before we even really knew each other. I knew I had to develop a rule around travel and our relationship and do it fast.
All of my trips have an open invite — but, in reality, he only joins me occasionally
Eibhlis Gale-Coleman
My new rule is that I follow an open-invite policy, meaning if he wants to come on my trip, he is my automatic plus-one. Non-negotiable.
I might be a sworn solo traveler, but I’m never cagey about inviting my boyfriend on my travels. I never want him to feel excluded, and I understand my responsibility to create some sort of stability, even if I’m taking off every minute.
In reality, he can’t always join me: He’s a full-time joiner for a construction firm, whereas I’m self-employed and work remotely.
Our approaches to travel are also totally different. However, these factors naturally create a balance of solo and couple trips, which I’m really grateful for.
Over the summer, he flew out to join me for two weeks in Ecuador and Peru. We hiked Machu Picchu, visited Mayan ruins, and even stayed in a beautiful overwater lodge in the Amazon.
When he flew home, I continued traveling alone for nearly two months, exploring Central America and road-tripping around the US.
My rule is simple, but it speaks volumes about the importance of communication
We’ve not been together that long, but we’ve already had incredible experiences and learned that communication is the secret to balancing travel and relationships.
My open-invite rule isn’t just about ensuring my partner always feels welcome in my life — it also helps us to connect and communicate about travel, distance, and how we manage our time.
He is always up for an adventure, but he equally supports me when I take solo trips, sometimes even helping me map out my routes.
He also occasionally travels without me, planning hiking excursions and sporting holidays with his own friends. Embracing our time as individuals and preserving our independence has kept our partnership strong, too.
I used to think being in a relationship would mean losing my freedom, but the truth is, it’s made traveling easier. I’ve got a solid support system and have tons of fun, no matter where I am or who I’m with.
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51 Airbnbs With Incredible Pools, From Joshua Tree to Lake Como
While the decision to book an Airbnb is often driven by very practical considerations—location, cost, availability, and so on—we believe it’s just as important to shoot for that x-factor: in this case, a jaw-dropping swimming pool. Using Airbnb’s “amazing pools” category and our own research (yes, we’ve been lucky enough to stay in a few of these properties ourselves), we pulled together a list of 50 of the best Airbnbs with private pools around the world. From an Italian villa with an infinity pool overlooking the shores of Lake Como to a Japanese farmhouse that also boasts a sauna, these open-air retreats will take your next aperitivo hour or sunbathing session to the next level.
Whether you’re planning a bachelorette party, romantic weekend escape, or group getaway, there’s a spot on this list for every type of trip. After all, nothing beats spending a day in the water, especially when it’s in the backyard of your very own vacation home. Read on for our edit of the best Airbnbs with pools, with bucket-list picks from nearly every continent.
We’ve selected these listings based on Superhost status, editor stays, ratings, amenities, location, decor, and previous guest reviews. This gallery has been updated with new information since its original publish date. Additional reporting by Maddie Flager.
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11 Best Flared Leggings for Travel Days, According to Our Editors
“What does everyone wear on the plane?” a colleague recently asked in the office. Before I had a chance to recommend our best leggings for flight days, she continued: “Don’t say leggings. They’re comfy, but personally I think they’re too casual to wear outside the gym.” Such is the plight of the fashion-forward traveler. How does one balance feeling genuinely comfortable in an economy seat without dressing like they’re about to settle in for the night or got lost on the way to a HIIT class?
Flared leggings might be the answer. While skinny jeans and bodycon dresses have long been banished to the back of the closet, athleisure has only more recently embraced the joys of flowier fabrics. Look now and you’ll see stylish types opting for loose, stretchy flares everywhere from reformer Pilates class to brunch and airport lounges alike.
These newer, breezier cuts range from full-flowing palazzo pants to more sleek, compressive kick flares in fabrics ranging from stretchy spandex to ultra-soft cotton. They’re different enough from regular leggings to shake off any ‘gym gear’ associations, while retaining the stretchy waistbands and breathable fabrics that are a must-have for flight days. That means they’re equal parts versatile and comfortable, and a bit smarter than wearing loungewear out of the house.
Both the US and UK Traveler teams tested 11 of the best pairs of wide-leg leggings from top brands such as Lululemon, Adanola, Tala, and Alo Yoga. We hunted for buttery-soft, relaxed fits that looked flattering and felt comfortable on the move, with waistbands that wouldn’t roll down in a plane seat. The pairs below made the cut.
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These 7 Sleeper Trains Are the Best Way to Travel Europe
When it comes to railway adventures, there are few things more exciting than falling asleep in one city and waking in the next, nudging up the blind to see what lies outside. Whether that reveals the golden haze of dawn or a moonlit night still holding on, the moment is one that’s always filled with magic.
For the last three years I’ve been journeying around Europe documenting the resurgence in sleeper trains, watching passengers drift back to the romance of the railways, eschewing budget flights and bullet trains for cosy couchettes and a slower mode of travel. For scenery, comfort, and camaraderie, these are the seven best night trains that Europe has to offer.
The Good Night Train: Brussels, Belgium to Berlin, Germany
Crowdfunded, and launched by a Belgian-Dutch collective named European Sleeper, The Good Night Train made its inaugural run from Brussels to Berlin in May 2023 and has since extended its route to Dresden and Prague, with a winter service to Venice. Set up by two night-train enthusiasts, European Sleeper offers a no-frills service whose hodgepodge of carriages date back to the 1950s—but no one on board is bothered, and raucous groups uncork wine and spread out slabs of pâté and cheese in what feels like a house party on wheels. With a mixture of sleeper and couchette compartments, the train departs Brussels three times a week, clattering out of the Belgian capital at 7.20 p.m. and pulling passengers through Flanders’ golden meadows and waterways that turn blush in the setting sun. Stopping at Amsterdam, where canals glimmer through the darkness, the train then runs smoothly through the night, with barely a jolt or jerk, giving passengers a chance to sleep deeply before a dawn arrival in Berlin.
The Venice Simplon-Orient-Express, a Belmond train: Paris, France to Portofino, Italy
With its iconic blue carriages and gold trimming, Belmond’s legendary train is a familiar sight to lovers of luxury travel, but this route is a well-kept secret, and the most scenic of them all. Running only once a year in summer, the VSOE departs Paris Austerlitz at 3 p.m., taking passengers to the pastel-colored town of Portofino. To the pop of a bottle of Ruinart champagne served with Petrossian caviar and blinis, the train thumps and clacks south of the French capital, picking up pace through villages and vineyards, warm air billowing through the wind-down windows. Over a black-tie dinner, guests are serenaded before moving piano-side for an all-night singalong, the bar only closing when the last passenger has left. Wisely, Belmond ensures that the train stables at midnight at Avignon, granting passengers five hours of undisturbed sleep in damask bedding until the train departs at dawn. Nudge up the blind and bite into warm croissants as you watch the sun rise over the Mediterranean, paddle boarders on the waters, and purple bougainvillea blooming by the tracks. The rest of the journey is nothing but sparkling ocean, beaches and palms, ending with two nights at the newly renovated Hotel Splendido in Portofino, overlooking the bay.
Santa Claus Express: Helsinki to Rovaniemi, Finland
A regular passenger train that runs year-round, the Santa Claus Express is Finland’s flagship service carrying riders from Helsinki into Rovaniemi, on the edge of the Arctic Circle. Best ridden in winter, this green and white double-decker beast departs just before 7.30 p.m. and takes 12 hours to wind north through forests of fir sagging under the weight of snow. Filled with young families and tourists keen to meet the big man at Santa Claus Village, the train features some of Europe’s most comfortable compartments with wide berths, underfloor heating, and toilets that fold down into showers. Pro tip: Hop on, dump bags, and dash to the tinsel-covered dining car for smoked reindeer stew and steaming bowls of meatballs and mash before it fills up with drinkers who won’t shift until dawn. From the windows passengers can watch as nativity scenes twinkle through the woods, foxes dart through empty car parks, and Finland’s freshwater lakes gleam like pools of black ink.
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