Imagine a young girl, night after night, dreaming of a humpback whale and its calf swimming through the deep blue sea—calling her to distant, unknown shores. And she listening to their calls. It wasn’t fiction. It was a signal. And for 22-year-old Afeedha Sherin, it was destiny.
Raised in a conservative yet warm Muslim family in Mankada of Kerala’s Malappuram, Afeedha’s path wasn’t paved with permission—it was carved slowly, through trust, talent and unshakable belief. Today, she is not only a solo traveller, but also a writer, artist and a beacon of courage for young Indian women chasing dreams beyond borders.
A journey rooted in dreams and determination
Afeedha is currently in her fourth year at the School of Planning and Architecture, Delhi—one of the country’s top institutes. She earned her admission through relentless hard work and laser focus, all with one mission: to pursue her passion for travel.
“I wasn’t always a topper. But when I realised that if I study hard, my parents won’t stop me from doing what I aspire to, I gave it everything,” she says. “So I studied hard with one goal in mind — to be free enough to explore.”
Her parents — Ashraf Ali, a businessman, and Bushra, who helps him in their tools and machinery shop — were protective, like many traditional families in Malappuram. With her elder sister Aseefa Sherin working as a physiotherapist and younger sister Afna Sherin in Plus One, Afeedha was the first in her family to even consider solo travel—let alone dream of international journeys.
But the dream started early.
“I have never missed trips from school since I was in LKG,” she laughs. “But I started exploring properly and seriously after I turned 18.”
Inspired by ‘Sancharam’, driven by passion
Her wanderlust was sparked by the iconic travel programme Sancharam by Santhosh George Kulangara, which she used to watch with her father around the age of 11 or 12.
“That show gave me wider exposure. I used to tell my father — one day I’ll travel like this, and the world will see my stories too.”
That childhood prophecy is now coming true.
No financial support, just pure talent and grit
Afeedha never relied on her parents for travel expenses.
“Every rupee I’ve spent on travel is earned by me,” she says with pride.
She supports herself by drawing portraits, painting and taking up collaborative art work. A gifted writer, she was awarded Best Writer at her college and even received institutional funding to publish a book based on her journeys — a rare achievement for someone so young.
“My trips are incredibly budget-friendly. My travel style is different,” she says. She always seeks out the cheapest yet safe accommodation.
And what’s in her backpack? Along with clothes and essentials, she always carries her creative tools: a sketchbook, pencils, colours, paper spray — and even small gifts for people she meets on the way.
Mauritius: A miracle of a journey
Her first international solo trip was to Mauritius — and it’s where her recurring dream came to life.
“I kept on seeing humpback whales in my dreams. I then realised it’s not just my imagination — they were really calling me, asking me to come to the ocean and find them.”
She tried for a month to arrange a whale-watching trip, but it was too expensive. Just as she was losing hope, someone generously offered to take her — for free.
Even then, sightings weren’t guaranteed. Humpback whales are usually found 2,500 metres deep in the ocean and rarely spotted where she was.
But what happened next was surreal.
“I saw them. The whale and the baby I had seen in my dreams — they were right there. It was a miracle.”
The locals were stunned. Humpback whales weren’t supposed to be there at that time or place — and yet, there they were. People believed her because she had posted about the dreams long before the trip.
“If I hadn’t shared my dreams earlier, no one would have believed it,” she says.
As if that wasn’t extraordinary enough, she also swam alongside a family of 10 sperm whales — an incredibly rare and intimate experience for any traveller, let alone a solo first-timer.
Love and kindness along the way
When she told her host family in Mauritius that she couldn’t afford to stay longer in the expensive area and planned to move to the north, they wouldn’t let her go.
“They said with warmth and generosity, ‘You’re our family now.’ They gave me food and shelter. I still video call them. Now, I have a father, mother, brother and friends waiting for me in Mauritius too.”
Her voice glows with gratitude, “The world is kinder than we think. You just have to step out and meet it.”
Malappuram: From inhibition to pride
When asked whether being from Malappuram — often labelled conservative — held her back, Afeedha gently pushes back.
“That’s an old idea. Malappuram has changed. Maybe a few families still hold on, but now those same people are the ones most proud of me.”
“If we study well, work hard and are passionate, our parents will support us. The whole universe will help us.”
‘Be unstoppable’: A message to other girls
To other young women dreaming of seeing the world, she says:
“Be unstoppable. There will be a million reasons not to venture out, but don’t let anything stop you.”
“A few years ago, my family didn’t even let me go to Kochi alone — and now I’ve gone to Mauritius. With tiny steps, come out of the shell. Don’t be stopped if permission isn’t given by your father, mother, siblings or partner. Listen to them, take their opinions — but the ultimate decision should be yours.”
On safety and the reality of solo travel
“There’s no such thing as a place being totally safe or unsafe. Kerala is a nice place with lovely people — just like Himachal, for example — but both can have bad people too. So it’s on us to be cautious and careful while travelling. And the rest is in God’s hands.”
Let the place tell its story
Interestingly, Afeedha doesn’t do too much research before her travels.
“I don’t want Google to tell me about a place. I want the place itself to speak to me. I want to feel it, walk it, live it.”
Through dreams, discipline and sheer determination, Afeedha Sherin is charting a path few dare to walk. And in doing so, she’s proving that for those who believe — even the ocean listens.
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