Solo Travellers
Tammin Surok on travel, mum guilt and her girls

Taking time away from your kids doesn’t make you a bad mum, it makes you human.
Actress and mum-of-two Tammin Sursok shares why solo travel is self-care, not selfish – and how she’s teaching her daughters to dream big by doing the same herself.
Because if a dad jets off to Spain solo, he’s praised for taking a well-earned break. But when a mum does the same? Cue the side-eye and questions about who’s looking after the kids.
It’s a frustrating double standard, and one Tammin is tired of seeing play out.
Splitting her time between Sydney and Nashville, the Home and Away alum is no stranger to airports, time zones and the juggle of parenting on the move. But it was a recent kid-free trip to Spain that sparked a bigger conversation—about guilt, rest, and the pressure mothers feel to be endlessly available.
“Mums need to normalise filling their own cup,” the host of The Shit Show with Tammin Sursok podcast tells Bounty Parents.
“Because when I come back rested, I’m a better parent. And my daughters get to see that it’s okay to prioritise yourself sometimes too.”
In this candid interview, Tammin opens up about parenting across continents, ditching outdated expectations, and why taking time away from your kids might just be one of the most loving things you can do.
“It’s not selfish, it’s necessary”
Tammin says her solo trip to Spain was more than just a break, it was a revelation. “If a dad goes to Spain solo, he’s living his best life. If a mum goes, she’s abandoned her children,” she says.
“There’s still so much social conditioning around what makes a ‘good mother’. She’s expected to be tireless, devoted, always available—and anything that looks like rest, solitude or joy outside of that is seen as selfish.”
But Tammin believes that mindset doesn’t just harm mothers—it teaches the wrong message to the next generation.
“I want my girls to know it’s okay to take care of yourself. That you don’t have to disappear to be a good mum.”
Motherhood and the myth of balance
For Tammin, life is a constant juggle between work, parenting and travel.
“Honestly, sometimes I don’t know if I am managing it! It’s a lot of logistics – different time zones, school systems – but we’re making it work. The girls have grown up knowing life happens in two places, and that’s been amazing for them culturally.”
She’s quick to debunk the myth of having it all figured out.
“I always say you can have it all, just not at the same time. Some days you’re nailing career stuff, other days you’re hiding in a pantry eating chocolate chips while the kids scream. That’s just real life.”
Respect and teamwork in parenting
Tammin and her husband have one major parenting non-negotiable: kindness, even in chaos.
“We don’t undermine each other in front of the kids. If one of us says no, the other doesn’t swoop in as the fun one. Even though sometimes I want to be the fun one! Ha.”
What self-care really looks like
Forget fancy spa days, Tammin says her self-care is often simple.
“It’s sitting alone in silence for five minutes. Watching TV without noise. A bath, a book. And yes, sometimes it’s big things, like travel or creative projects that light me up. But mostly, it’s small acts that remind me I’m a person too.”
Sharing real life, with boundaries
With 1.3 million Instagram followers, Tammin knows the value of being open, but she draws a clear line when it comes to family.
“If sharing a messy moment helps someone feel less alone, I’ll do it. But my kids’ emotional privacy comes first. People see maybe 5% of my life online, the rest belongs to us.”
Tammin’s long-haul travel survival guide
Having clocked countless flights between the US and Australia with kids in tow, Tammin shares her go-to tips for travelling with little ones:
- Snacks. So many snacks.
- A new toy or activity they’ve never seen before.
- A change of clothes for everyone, learned that the hard way!
- Forget screen time rules – it’s survival mode.
- Always choose a night flight if you can.
- And remember: the flight will end. Even if it doesn’t feel like it.
Play-Doh x Barbie
Recently, Tammin hosted a Play-Doh x Barbie high tea in Sydney and says the new Fashion Play Sets align perfectly with how she encourages creativity at home.
“In our house, creativity is non-negotiable. There’s no wrong way to create, whether it’s Play-Doh dresses or glitter explosions on paper. I want my girls to feel free to express themselves.”
Tammin’s daughters, Phoenix, 11 and Lennon, six already have big personalities, and bold fashion to match.
“Phoenix is sporty and practical but loves a statement piece. Lennon’s a tiny rockstar – animal prints, sunglasses indoors, very opinionated about accessories!”
As for Tammin, her own style is comfort-first with the occasional red carpet glam.
“Day-to-day I’m in jeans, a white tee and trainers. But I do love going bold when I dress up, it’s evolving, but I just want to feel good without trying too hard.”
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Global solo traveler embraces unique lifestyle from Sioux Falls

Not that long ago, Taylor Hanson literally stood at the end of the world.
“The tip (of South America) right next to the Antarctica,” she said. “The weather reminded me of South Dakota, with the fall weather and pretty colors and cold temperatures.”
She walked the Pan-American Highway, which is the world’s longest highway starting in Alaska and ending in Ushuaia in Argentina.
Her time in Patagonia, a region shared by Argentina and Chile, was part of a two-month trip that saw her visit eight countries in eight weeks, walk 50 miles in five days through the Andean mountains to the Amazon jungle, then uphill 800 steps to the top of Machu Pichu.
Hiking Mount Fitz in Patagonia
“I woke up at 3:30 a.m., so it was rough, but I got to the top, and when the clouds cleared, I instantly started having tears in my eyes because it was an experience,” she said.
Machu Pichu
Call it one of many. In the past 12 years, Hanson, who is 33, has amassed more travel memories than most do in a lifetime — many of them traveling by herself.
Her first solo trip was at age 21, inspired by a family name she discovered in her grandmother’s address book.
She learned the relatives lived in Norway and decided to travel to meet them, “and now they’re like close family with me,” she said.
She returned last year to celebrate May 17, a national holiday similar to the Fourth of July in the U.S., signifying the signing of the Norwegian Constitution.
“I think it speaks a lot for females to do solo traveling,” Hanson said. “My generation is like, do we want to buy a house, have kids, get married? I’m kind of in a place where people my age are doing that, and I’m like, where am I going to go this weekend?”
The Perito Moreno Glacier near El Calafate, Argentina, in the Patagonia region.
Solo travel has become a major industry trend, with 76 percent of millennials and Gen Z planning solo trips last year, versus 69 percent of all respondents, according to the American Express 2024 Global Travel Trends Report. Of those people, 60 percent planned two or more trips.
Young travelers appreciate that they’re easy to plan and often choose a quick weekend getaway, with almost 30 percent saying they’d prefer solo travel to a new city, the report said.
“For deep relaxation, developing a new interest or meeting new people, solo trips can be hard to beat,” the report said.
The trend is especially pronounced among women. A 2024 report from global travel network Virtuoso found females make up 71 percent of solo travelers.
Salkantay Trek, Peru
Sioux Falls has taken notice. Experience Sioux Falls, the community’s tourism organization, recently published a piece on guiding solo travelers to destinations in the city.
“We know it certainly exists. Even just walking around, they’re out exploring Falls Park or SculptureWalk or walking into a coffee shop or restaurant,” said Matt Barthel, communications manager. “On a national level, it’s definitely more of a trending topic, especially with the younger generations. I think people are starting to realize they don’t necessarily need friends or family to go enjoy travel, enjoy different parts in the world. People are more willing to step out of their comfort zone and go explore.”
Sioux Falls benefits from being a safe, walkable downtown where people can drop their bags and easily walk to parks or get on the recreation trail, he said.
“We know people are looking for unique experiences, so we’re trying to reach a broad audience to say whether you’re into hiking at Good Earth or catching at concert at Levitt at the Falls, there’s definitely something for everyone,” Barthel said. “Plus, it’s a smaller city, so you can get your feet wet (with solo travel) and find out if you want to do this for more than a day or two.”
In Hanson’s case, it has become a lifestyle.
She works full time at Gateway Bar & Grill and has for the past 11 years. Beginning in the next few weeks, she will start to work 40 to 50 hours weekly as football and basketball seasons bring increased demand.
She often works open to close, serving and bartending.
And she saves. She skips the coffees out and impulse purchases in favor of thrifting. She saves on housing costs by continuing to live with her parents, “which is something I’m extra grateful for the extra time I get to spend with them,” she said.
“It not a tough subject. People kind of look down on it, but I think it’s becoming more popular nowadays because the money you’d spend on paying a mortgage or rent, that’s what you spend on travel.”
When she travels, it’s on a budget too.
“I stay in hostels, where they can be $10 a night,” she said. “Hotels are more expensive, but the bunk bed life helps save a lot of money on those trips.”
Not all her travel is solo. Two years ago, she and a close friend spent six months traveling in Southeast Asia.
“She lives the same lifestyle as me,” Hanson said. “We’re both in the (service) industry, and we both have great support from our family and friends. She’s now married and met her now husband on our trip to Asia.”
Laos
That trip saw them mark the milestone of turning 30 with an adventure that took them to Thailand, India, Nepal, Laos, Vietnam, Cambodia, Indonesia, Japan and South Korea.
Thailand
Wonder how to pack for something like that?
“Remember less is more,” Hanson said. “Find a ‘staple style’ where you can mix and match outfits. My backpack weighed 30 pounds for my two-month trip to South America, so I had to strategically pack for their cold and warm weather.”
She tends to bring lightweight sandals and one pair of walking or hiking shoes. Packing cubes help her backpack stay organized — she allows herself one cube for tops and one for bottoms.
“I bring laundry strips to wash my clothes while traveling, but there are laundry services where you can pay $1 to $3 for them to wash, dry and fold your clothes,” she said.
It helps to be an adventurous eater too.
Hanson’s travels have led her to taste everything from guinea pig in Ecuador to alpaca in Argentina and dried insects at food markets in Thailand.
Guinea pig in Ecuador
She visits a McDonald’s in each country to try their different meals — “my comfort food when I miss home.”
Often, fellow travelers tell her she’s the first South Dakotan they’ve met.
“My goal is to show the world ‘Midwest Nice,’” she added.
“The roads and traffic can be wild in other countries, so it makes me appreciate the smooth roads and easy traffic when I am back home in Sioux Falls. It’s the little things.”
At the end of each backpacking trip, she gets a small tattoo before heading home.
“It’s a fun souvenir and a way to represent my adventure,” Hanson said. “Speaking of souvenirs, I bring home a lot of unique knickknacks.”
Here are a few more tips:
- Always bring a journal to document your journey. “I think it will be fun to reread my journals someday and remember how cool I was when I was young,” Hanson said.
- Share your location with family and friends so they can follow the trip but also in case of an emergency. Air Tags come in handy to ensure you keep track of your items.
- Keep a folder on your phone with a scan of your passport, bank numbers and any other important information.
- Bring a tablet for streaming and reading, with a universal adapter plug for all electronics.
Lately, Hanson has been doing one trip each year, usually in the spring.
“I’m very type A. I like to have everything planned and organized,” Hanson said.
“But I also love room for other things to pop up. I probably spent over 100 hours planning the trip (to South America), and I was going by weather because I was going into their fall and winter and had to go places before it started to snow and get really cold.”
Next year, she plans to return to visit family in Norway and travel through Europe with others she has met solo traveling.
And when she’s back in South Dakota, you’ll often find Hanson across the state exploring the Black Hills, where she’s gotten into crewing for a hot air balloon business.
She’ll also visit family in Minnesota, but other than that, she’s saving domestic travel for the days when “I’m older and can rent an RV and drive,” she said. “The older you get, you don’t want to be on a plane 12 hours. It’s easier at this age to go on a flight and go hike five days.”
In the meantime, “I want to get to 35 countries before I turn 35,” she said.
It’s going to happen: She’s already at 28.
“I hope more people are inspired to follow their dreams and explore,” Hanson said. “Life’s too short. Just live your life.”
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This Stranger Things Airbnb Will Transport You to the Upside Down—Snag a Stay Before It Books Up!

Stranger Things, the beloved Netflix show that first aired in the summer of 2016, is finally coming to a close this year. And if you’re looking to make the most of the fifth and final season, we’re here to introduce you to a way to do so that you won’t soon forget: staying in a replica of the Byers’ house.
Just 20 minutes from the Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport, this three-bedroom is a gateway to another world—but luckily, this world and the way to reach it are far nicer than the actual Upside Down. Complete with authentic 80s decor, games, and entertainment (peep the VHS tapes in the living room), it’s a fantastic recreation of the beloved Byers family home seen in seasons 1-3 of the hit show—Christmas light alphabet and all. Fans, welcome to Hawkins, Indiana. (Or Fayetteville, Georgia, if you want to get technical about it.)
You may end up looking around for Eleven, Hopper, Will, Joyce, and the rest of the gang when you enter this period-appropriate listing, which was designed and crafted by fans in order to honor the show. It features plenty of Easter eggs and details that fans will recognize—from the trinkets on display to the 1950s-era lampshade.
The three bedrooms sleep up to six people, with a king bed in Jonathan’s room, a queen bed in Will’s room, and two sets of bunk beds in the Upside Down room. (It is a Building and Safety mandate to only allow two people per bedroom, FYI.) Decor stays on-theme (and on-character), with vinyl records and Amiga 500 games in Jonathan’s room, and plenty of art in Will’s room, including a drawing of Will’s Dungeons and Dragons character, Will the Wise. Step into the Upside Down room to play a round of D&D yourself, surrounded by creeping black tendrils in the corners and on the wall connecting you back to the Mind Flayer. In the common areas, find VHS tapes, retro furniture, and even more decor that calls back to the show.
Luckily, we aren’t actually in the 80s, so you can still appreciate all the modern conveniences of the 21st century, like strong AC; a modern stove, dishwasher, and washer/dryer; and a 75” Samsung Frame TV with streaming services, so you can watch your favorite Stranger Things episodes, of course.
Much of the Stranger Things franchise was filmed in the area, meaning you have the opportunity to totally immerse yourself in the world of the series during your stay. If you’re up for a drive, head to Jacksonville, home of downtown Hawkins, where you can spot locations like the Hawk Theater (Bradley’s Olde Tavern in real life), and the nearby alley where Jonathan and Steve fought. You can also sip drinks from Lucy Lu’s Coffee Café, which has been known to feature Stranger Things–themed specialties in the past, like the Demogorgon Latte, or the Sheriff Hopper, flavored with hazelnut and vanilla.
The listing says it best: “This isn’t just a place to stay—it’s a one-of-a-kind destination to make unforgettable memories in a setting that blurs the line between fiction and reality.” Book your stay now to get the unbelievable chance to watch the final season of the hit show from the house that started it all.
More rentals based on TV shows and movies:
Spend the night in Bella Swan’s house from Twilight, located in St. Helens, Oregon. It’s about 230 miles south of Forks, Washington, and 30 miles north of Portland, Oregon, making it a great stopping point on a Twilight-themed road trip up the Pacific Coast. With five bedrooms, a good-sized kitchen—where you can dine at the same table used in the film by Bella’s dad, Charlie—and plenty of space for up to eight guests, this is a spot any Twilight fan will want to stay in.
While the White Lotus craze may be on pause until the next season is released sometime in the distant future, you can still stay at one of the luxury properties that was actually featured on Season 3 of the show, like this Thai villa that is bookable on Airbnb. Each of the seven bedrooms has a king-size bed (sleeping up to 14 adults) as well as an en suite bathroom (five of which have private hot tubs). You’ll find rain showers, oversized bathtubs, and plush linens in the beautiful rooms, plus retro arcade games and a kids pool fit for the whole family.
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I Used Nuuly to Help Me Pack for a Trip to India—Here’s My Thoughts

When I was packing for a trip to India—a modest country known for its hot climate—I was at a loss for what to wear. My standard summer wardrobe consists of bike shorts, crop tops, and tanks. Not exactly temple-appropriate. I didn’t want to invest in a whole new suitcase of breathable, shoulder-covering outfits I might never wear again. So I turned to Nuuly, a clothing rental service, and browsed its collection of over 16,000 pieces. I added six items to my cart: a flowy white midi skirt, a patterned maxi skirt, two pairs of lightweight Donni pants, a breezy short-sleeve button-down, and a midi dress I never wore (too big).
It ended up being the perfect middle ground: I packed lightly, still felt put-together, didn’t overheat, and stayed true to my personal style. That trip changed the way I pack: Renting clothes has become my go-to travel strategy—especially when I have to dress for a different climate or cultural setting, or want to try out new styles without committing to them forever.
How Nuuly works
Nuuly lets you choose six items per month for $98, with no long-term commitment required. I’ve used it on and off for over a year now, often pausing my subscription to try other services like BNTO. But anytime I have travel on the calendar, I always come back to Nuuly—its brand lineup is that solid. You’ll find pieces from Agolde, Farm Rio, Donni, Free People, Anthropologie, Levi’s, and Alohas, along with smaller labels you might not have discovered otherwise, like Find Me Now and Boys Lie. (BNTO’s brands skew more streetwear or city chic, so I love it for everyday life, but Nuuly wins when I need versatile pieces for a trip.) Nuuly ships your items in a reusable garment bag with a prepaid return label, and everything arrives freshly cleaned.
There’s no option to swap pieces mid-month, so you’re stuck with your picks even if they don’t you don’t like them or they don’t fit—but that limitation has actually helped me become a smarter packer. I plan my Nuuly rental the same way I’d build a capsule wardrobe: thinking through what can mix and match, what fabrics will hold up well in transit, and what I’ll realistically want to wear. If you love one of the items, you can buy it. Most pieces are discounted from 15 to up to 75% off retail value, depending on how long the item has been in Nuuly’s rotation.
Picking six items you want can be time-consuming, but the interface makes it pretty easy to curate your cart. You can filter by size, color, brand, and even vibe—Nuuly has rotating seasonal “edits” like “Summer Outfitting” and “Trends” that make it easier to browse. I usually spend a little time reading reviews to avoid sizing surprises—and I always go to the brand’s website and reference its size chart—but most listings have detailed fit notes and photos from previous renters, which helps so you can try to see what the piece looks like on a similar body type. I also get to experiment with new styles, both when traveling and at home. If I’m not sure if a trend will work on me—like Bermuda denim shorts, drop-waist dresses, or skirt-layered-pants—I can try it with no strings attached. If I don’t like how it looks, I’ll just return it at the end of the month.
Why I love it for travel
While I found it most helpful for building my wardrobe for India, I’ve used it for other types of travel, too. On a recent trip to an all-inclusive resort in Aruba (not my usual vibe), I picked two vacation-y tops (one white tube top and one black embroidered piece) and a seafoam-colored maxi skirt that made me feel like I should be sipping something out of a coconut. I don’t normally wear things like that in my day-to-day life, but for a few days on the beach? It was perfect. And I didn’t have to make room in my already-stuffed closet when I got home.
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