Solo Travellers
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently on My Solo Trip to Japan
In November, after three months of interviews, I lost out on a job and decided it was time for a travel break. I set out on a 3 ½-week trip to Japan.
The timing worked out — the favorable dollar-to-yen exchange rate, mild weather, and vibrant autumn foliage made it a great time to visit.
With little time to find a travel companion, I embraced the freedom of solo travel and the ability to make plans on a whim. And since I’d traveled on my own before, I thought I could wing it. This trip to Japan proved to be more difficult than expected.
My trip included exploring the “golden triangle” of Tokyo, Kyoto, and Osaka, with day trips to nearby destinations such as Nikko, Mount Fuji, Nara, and Himeji. It also included visits to Hiroshima and Miyajima Island and a week in central Japan.
The trip cost about $3,400, not including the airfare, which I paid for with credit-card points. As a cost-conscious backpacker, I stayed in pod hotels or hostels and mostly ate street food, convenience-store fare, or noodles at ramen shops.
My biggest expense was accommodation, which totaled more than $915 for 24 nights. On-the-ground transportation added up as well. While local trains were fairly inexpensive, tickets for the Shinkansen bullet train were costly. My ride from Tokyo to Toyama was the most expensive at about $100, Hiroshima to Osaka was about $70, and Osaka to Tokyo was about $90.
A few indulgences included attending a kimono tea ceremony, a Kobe steak dinner, and visits to a handful of themed cafés.
While I loved the trip, here are three things I would have done differently.
1. More planning before the trip
My pre-trip research focused mainly on sites and activities, not the logistics. I didn’t book anything in advance, aside from my first few days in Tokyo. This led to a chaotic and inefficient trip full of missed trains, lost opportunities, and unnecessary stress.
I had read that Japan was popular in autumn, but it was busier than I expected, and difficult to find last-minute budget accommodation. Many of the popular attractions, including Tokyo’s Ghibli Museum and Ninja Tokyo restaurant, had been booked in advance. Other places throughout the country, including Osaka’s Nintendo Museum and ryokans — traditional Japanese homestays — also booked up quickly.
I did get lucky with the tea ceremony — a plus of solo traveling — but I wish I’d pre-booked the ones I missed out on.
I also would have booked accommodation ahead of time on sites with a free cancellation policy. This would have allowed me to secure lodging while also offering the flexibility to change plans.
For transportation, I would have secured my IC card when I arrived at the airport. These cards — which include Suica, Pasmo, and Icoca — are prepaid and allow easy travel among public transportation systems in big cities. After a 13-hour flight, I rushed to get to my hotel. But getting one of these cards later was harder than I expected — they were available only in the larger train stations and not consistently.
Erica Hobbs
2. Opted for hostels instead of capsule hotels
Many people think solo travel is about doing things alone, but one of my favorite parts is the new people you meet along the way. Hostels are usually good for being social, and I thought I’d have the same luck in capsule hotels. Instead, I found the pod hotels — though delightfully calm and spa-like — to be much less social. There were also a lot of local travelers staying at these who didn’t speak English.
But I made friends immediately at the hostels I stayed in. In Hiroshima, seven of us spent the day exploring Miyajima Island together, and I climbed a mountain I never would have visited alone. Had I started my trip in hostels, I would have made friends to travel with earlier on.
Erica Hobbs
3. Spent more time in Nikko and Osaka
About 90 miles north of Tokyo, Nikko is a popular day trip, but I wish I had dedicated two full days to exploring the town properly. It’s known for both its elaborate shrines and temples and beautiful mountain scenery. When I visited in November, the sites closed at 4 p.m., and things started to get dark not long after, which meant there was a limited window to explore everything Nikko had to offer.
The 126-acre Tokugawa shrine and temple complex — which became a UNESCO World Heritage site in 1999 — is less than 10 miles from Lake Chuzenji, where the Mount Nantai climb begins, but traveling from one to the other can take an hour. I could have happily wandered the complex — especially its famous Toshogu Shrine — for an entire day.
I also wish I’d had a full day to explore the beautiful lake, waterfalls, and hiking opportunities around the mountain. My single day there felt rushed and was limited to just the highlights.
Erica Hobbs
I also wish I had spent more time in Osaka. Since it is primarily known for its food, I thought two days would be enough, but it was the non-foodie parts that were my favorites and what I wish I had more time for.
Its Dotonbori area was full of lights and people with a palpable energy I liked being a part of. I enjoyed spending a half-day at Osaka Castle, but with more time I would have visited the Osaka Museum of Housing and Living and the Osaka Aquarium Kaiyukan, which travelers I met along the way raved about. I also would have flown home directly from Osaka, which would have saved me a half day and a $90 bullet-train fare.
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The Only Way to Group Travel Is Solo
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When Tiffany Lumpkin got divorced after just two weeks of marriage in 2022, her immediate reaction was to book a flight to Cape Town. Lumpkin and her now-ex-husband had been in a relationship for eight years, during which time they often talked about going to South Africa. But the trip never materialized. The split made Lumpkin realize she couldn’t keep putting off her dream vacation. “It was one of those euphoric moments where I was like, I don’t have to wait on a spouse. I don’t have to wait on a friend.”
Once the 36-year-old landed in Cape Town, however, fear and anxiety hit. She’d barely gone to the movies alone before, never mind travel solo. “As the plane was landing and I saw the mountains and ocean, I was looking at the motherland like, What have you done? This plane lands and you have to get off,” she says. “I was terrified.” Still, she felt like she owed it to herself to see the trip through. Before leaving home, her mom had told her to look into group trips for safety reasons. Now she scoured social media in a panic for companies offering tours and signed up for as many as possible.
Rhino Africa, the company she had scheduled an excursion with, helped point her to some local guides. Over the next three weeks, Lumpkin tried new dishes, tasted wine, explored museums, and went on safari with total strangers. “I felt like a local,” she says. While she got to have alone time when she wanted it, she says her time in South Africa “just wouldn’t have been the same without the group.”
Lumpkin has since been on at least ten solo trips around the U.S. and abroad, including to France, Mexico, and Thailand, that she’s filled with group trips and excursions. While women make up more than 70 percent of solo travelers, according to the luxury travel advisory Virtuoso, many of them are looking to find connection and friendship while they’re exploring. There are cruise, adventure, and safari companies offering group travel specifically for women all over the globe; depending on the destination, the length of the trip, and the level of luxury, these trips can range from several hundred to several thousand dollars. Intrepid Travel reported that its all-female tours, which are led by locals, grew by 37 percent globally in 2024; an eight-day trip to Morocco with the company starts at about $1,200. An 11-day tour of Portugal with Insight Vacations, which began offering group packages for women in 2024 after seeing a surge in demand from female travelers, starts at around $4,800.
Anuja Bagri, a 25-year-old management consultant in Chicago, took a break from her corporate job last year to travel. Her friends and family didn’t have the flexibility to join up with her at any point, so she looked into group tours. She did a women’s retreat in Kerala, India, before visiting her grandmother in Bangalore. She then spent some alone time in Bali followed by group sailing in Australia’s Whitsundays. “You’re still stepping out of your comfort zone, but you don’t have to do any of the planning and someone is guiding you every day,” she says. “So you can just really be in the moment and the experience.”
Group tours also appeal to those who don’t want to deal with the drama that planning a vacation with friends and family can bring — or worse, get into a fight with people they love once they get to their destination. When Bisola Tijani, a Toronto-based content creator, went to Dubai with relatives in 2021, the trip got awkward after a flight carrying half the group was canceled. “We didn’t want to do the activities without our other family, and we weren’t even sure when they were arriving,” the 29-year-old says. It was difficult to reschedule nonrefundable activities and adjust the itinerary, which she says was “a mess for someone like me.”
Tijani is a self-described planner, that person in the friend group who’s always suggesting new destinations, booking restaurant reservations, and making sure everyone has paid their share. So she knows how heavy of a lift it can be to get everyone on the same page while traveling. “Some people just want to chill, but some people want adventure and to always be doing something, and some people are just there for the vibe,” she says. “Getting a trip out of the group chat can just be really hard.” She created her own travel company, Sabi Enjoy, in 2024. While the tours are open to all travelers, she says her clients have overwhelmingly been women — and most of them tell her that they booked because they couldn’t align on a trip with their friends.
Gabrielle Ybarzabal found herself struggling last year to recruit a group to travel around New Year’s Eve. The 26-year-old wanted to get out of Austin and ring in 2025 on a beach in a country she hadn’t visited before. She liked the idea of being one of the first people in the world to celebrate, so she decided on Thailand. “I asked friends if they were able to go with me, but no one really wanted to commit to it,” she says. “So I said, OK, this is the trip I’m doing by myself.” She booked with EF Ultimate Break (Ybarzabal noted she used a travel credit for this trip, without which the same package, including flights, some excursions, and meals, would have cost about $5,000) and was soon added to a group chat for the tour. She was nervous about heading to a new country alone but hopeful that she would click with the other travelers.
“By the time I got there, we’d been following each other on Instagram,” she says. “That broke the ice.” While the 25-person tour group was co-ed, Ybarzabal says most were solo women travelers like herself. The company paired guests of the same gender for their hotel accommodations, unless they requested to share. The group explored Chiang Mai, Ao Phang Nga National Park, and Bangkok together. On New Year’s Eve, they made krathongs, floating floral lanterns that symbolize letting go of negativity. That night, at a beach party in Phuket, they went out on the water in kayaks to release the krathongs. Despite being away from her friends, Ybarzabal didn’t feel lonely, and she got the exact holiday she’d envisioned.
For her part, Lumpkin says that whenever she shares the story of recovering from her divorce while traveling with strangers, people always want to hear more. She’s now planning to lead her own retreat for women going through similar hard times in 2026, likely in Bali or Costa Rica. “Life is so much more special when you can do it with someone else,” she says. “We so often think it has to be a romantic partner, but it doesn’t.” And who knows? Maybe your future maid of honor is a stranger you’ll meet on a group tour.
Solo Travellers
Clueless Fans, You Can Now Book a Cher Horowitz–Themed Suite in Beverly Hills
It’s been 30 years since Cher Horowitz’s colorful life and even more colorful fashion sense debuted in the film Clueless. And though she claimed to have a “way normal life for a teenager” (as if!), her onscreen adventures and style proved otherwise. I can’t be the only one who wishes they had the opportunity to step into Cher’s shoes (both literally and figuratively), or try out her virtual closet and extensive wardrobe. Luckily, that dream can now become a reality. To commemorate the film’s fashion-forward legacy, the chic L’Ermitage Beverly Hills hotel has partnered with Paramount, Bloomingdale’s, and Clueless costume designer Mona May to unveil The Clueless Suite. The bright, pastel-splashed 750-square-foot space would certainly earn two snaps from Cher. Inside, you’ll find a large bed decked out in pastel pink and adorned with fluffy pillows, a spacious living area with a full-size couch and access to a private balcony, and playful odes to the film—including a yellow plaid accent wall inspired by Cher’s first-day-of-school look, a neon sign with Cher’s famous quote “Carpe diem! Okay?”, fuzzy pens, and Liechtenstein-style pop art. You’ll also have access to a white Jeep Wrangler, bringing you one step closer to “rolling with the homies” through Beverly Hills.
And for the pièce de résistance—and the thing most of us have wished was real since the film’s 1995 debut—the suite’s walk-in closet serves as a fashionable portal to Cher Horowitz’s iconic style. It’s draped with rotating fashion pieces from Bloomingdale’s, which were curated by Mona May with in-house stylists. You’ll be asked to fill out a pre-arrival style quiz to personalize recommended outfits, all of which are available to shop via QR code. Guests also get a free membership to Fitted, the official virtual Clueless closet app of the anniversary campaign, as well as a $100 Bloomingdale’s gift card, a VIP in-store styling appointment with Bloomingdale’s stylists, and a Dior Beauty glam session. Bookable from July 12 through September 1, the Clueless Suite starts at $1,995 per night with a two-night minimum. Reservations can be made on the L’Ermitage Beverly Hills website.
If you’re unable to book the Clueless suite, don’t lose all hope. L’Ermitage guests can also opt for “The Cher’mitage Experience,” a signature add-on available with any suite stay that includes Clueless-themed turn-down treats, a Polaroid camera, movie streaming, and a complimentary sunset toast at the hotel’s new rooftop lounge, Poza.
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‘Treated Like Threat’: Indian Solo Traveller’s Note On Passport Discrimination | Viral News
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Treated with suspicion, more than planning his trips, he claimed he was forced to spend hours proving his identity to the airport authorities and assuring them of his return.
His Indian passport was looked at with suspicion. (Photo Credits: Instagram)
A 22-year-old vlogger and solo traveller grabbed the internet’s attention, as he detailed the ordeals faced while carrying an Indian passport. Jayant Sharma, who goes by ‘jaystravelblog’ on Instagram, revealed his travelling struggles and how he was subjected to greater scrutiny than other foreign travellers. “The ugly side of travel I had to come across as an Indian passport holder who loves travelling,” he captioned the post, which highlighted the disrespect faced by many Indian travellers.
Treated with suspicion, more than planning his trips, Sharma claimed he was forced to spend hours proving his identity to the airport authorities and assuring them of his return. He wrote in his viral post, “It’s in a fact that I’ve had to justify why I deserve a 7-day trip. That I’ve spent more time convincing embassies I’ll ‘come back’ than planning where I’ll go. That a border control officer, with a 3-second glance, can make me feel like a threat — before I’ve even said a word.”
“It’s not in the guidebooks. Not on the reels. Not in the sunsets, the flights, or the airport lounges. It’s in the stares. The silence,” wrote the vlogger, underlining how it is not all hunky-dory for solo Indian travellers as it may seem.
Like Sharma, many Indians are subjected to excess scrutiny on arrival in another country. The vlogger said the immigration refuses to be a checkpoint and becomes a scary place, where Indian passport holders are bombarded with questions and are observed more closely by the security personnel, made to feel as if they have committed a crime.
“No one says it, but I know: They don’t always see a traveller. They see a risk. A potential overstayer. A brown skin man with a passport is trying to pass through. And what hurts most is… we know this. We prepare for it. We dress a certain way. Speak softer. Carry more documents. Plan escape routes through countries that are “easier”. We smile too much — not out of joy, but out of fear of being misunderstood,” wrote Sharma.
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It seems that for young solo travellers, the real headache is not choosing where to go but proving that they will come back. Sharma’s post touched many other Indian travellers, who related to his struggles and felt sorry that he was subjected to such treatment repeatedly. “This is such a needed post! Thank you for writing this. As a fellow travel enthusiast, this hits hard,” commented one user under the post.
Another one added, “Definitely true. Deep topic, pros and cons, but one part is certainly true: no one deserves to be treated that way and questioned because of where they come from.”
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